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Offline Hinza

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Im SO pissed.
« on: May 13, 2009, 09:04:47 am »
Right. So i just feel like letting out some steam and maybe get some words of wisdom from you guys..cuz im in a pretty annoying situation.

Deal is, my girlfriend, who i was crazy in love with..Broke up with me this sunday, broke my heart and i was feeling shitty for a while..

Doesnt end there! oh no!..Now shes getting together with my mate..one of my good mates..And he's the type of guy who doesnt have it easy with the ladies (unlike me btw..)
And i dont know wether to beat his ass, hate him, or be happy for him..atm im feeling a mix of all these..guide me please.
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Re: Im SO pissed.
« Reply #1 on: May 13, 2009, 09:38:41 am »
He's my words of wisdom:
Shit happens, if one of you in the couple wasn't happy, the relationship wasn't going anywhere.
You say you find it easy to get girls, and your friend doesn't. Apparently he has now got with a good 'un, and now you want to hate him for it? Even if it wasn't for him, she may have still broke up with you, and you won't change a thing. Be happy for your friend.
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Re: Im SO pissed.
« Reply #2 on: May 13, 2009, 09:47:02 am »
Quote from: Zencal on May 13, 2009, 09:38:41 am
He's my words of wisdom:
Shit happens, if one of you in the couple wasn't happy, the relationship wasn't going anywhere.
You say you find it easy to get girls, and your friend doesn't. Apparently he has now got with a good 'un, and now you want to hate him for it? Even if it wasn't for him, she may have still broke up with you, and you won't change a thing. Be happy for your friend.
I kinda decided the same thing.
Im gonna let my hate go to her..And not to my friend. Im guessing he just has really shitty timing..Not gonna see him this week (more than neccesary, seeing we go to the same school) just to make sure i dont freak out and beat the shit out of him..never had to deal with my temper in this kind of situation, and in general, i can be an aggresive guy when i had enough.
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Re: Im SO pissed.
« Reply #3 on: May 13, 2009, 10:52:43 am »
Ok, so your girlfriend broke up with you, and your ''good friend'' is getting with her? :/ Sorry. Here is what I would do.
Take a deep breath. Think about the situation, and then ask your heart. Do you want to hate her, hate him or neither? Do what YOU think is best Simon. If you want to be happy, make your own choices. I am not going to put me as you, because I might guide you the wrong by saying ''If I was you, hate him and her, and be a moody bitch for the rest of your life''. I won't say that, and I'm not even saying that. Be happy, and let things smooth over. I do. It's how my life goes. I recently had a fallout with two close mates. We didn't get along after that. (This was like last friday). But I spent 3 hours talking to one of my mates on MSN, explaining I was normal, and saying I am myself. I always will be. With my other mate, I had to explain the tings I did to him. I spent 6 whole days to get him to speak to me and for things to smooth over. (Ok this is going off-topic, I will stop). All I am saying Simon is, let your heart and soul do the thinking, not your brain.

I hope you do the right choice. I really hope you do.

Thanks,

Ryan.
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Re: Im SO pissed.
« Reply #4 on: May 13, 2009, 12:59:00 pm »
Honostly, i would have to say just to let things go, i mean yeah i know that you have strong feelings for her,i mean if you want, it'd be easier for me to help consult you on this on xfire, butuhhm...yeah i'd say be happy for him but pull him off to the side and tell him how you really feel about this, be happy for him, tell him you's depressed about it..uhmm Hope we help You in this situation >.<
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Re: Im SO pissed.
« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2009, 07:11:24 am »
well, hate noone =) just let it go. buy a pillow and beat it to death, it helps =) (did for me anyways)

[OT]WoS should become a professional psychiatrist (dunno if i wrote that one correctly)[/OT]
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